Pro and cons here. Pro: I LEARNED SO MUCH about myself. Like really. And I usually get along pretty great with books written like you'd speak. No problems with swearing here, so I don't mind her saying damn, fuck and stuff at all - but it's really overy the top on many, many pages so I had to overread half of the words to get to the core of the sentence. That kinda sucked. Still, GREAT BOOK. I already read another one by her and she toned it down a bit, that's why it's 4 stars instead of 3.