Das Hauptthema ist natürlich die Aufklärung über den Sex aus der Perspektive der Frauen. Aber es wird auch Grundlegendes und Dazugehöriges, also das drumherum, mit erklärt. Es ist einfach die perfekte Aufklärung; auch für Männer absolut lohnenswert! Es sollte als Biologie Lektüre in Schulen gelesen werden. Es ist auch von der Sprachumsetzung einfach zu verstehen. Die Autorin bringt einfach die wichtigsten Punkte zu Wort, die vorher immer nur so ein „Gefühl“ waren. Äußerst Empfehlenswert!

Stopped reading at 23% - I really wanted to like this book and learn from it. But the beginning didn't bring any aha-moments for me and combined with the constant cut off with 'we'll get deeper into that in chapter x, y or z' made me tired of waiting for the contents she promised to finally start... and so I lost interest. Maybe it would have helped to shorten all the build up and just get right into it.

Healing and therapeutic. Added to my list of facts I am gonna tell people about on the next party! Some of the things in the book that made me go ":-O" while reading: 1. No one really knows what the hymen is for and yet it is one of the most discussed body parts ??? 2. The female orgasm has no evolutionary function (and yet is so much fun) 3. Why sex with an abuser is 50 times better and what's wrong with that 4. Monogamy is NOT the problem It is amazing how she touches so many subjects in the book without it getting too big or too much. Nagoski manages to do the balancing act and writes both scientifically and reader-friendly. And, boy, is there a lot of myths I agreed on and did not know about. I liked that she also added an appendix with the science and papers she used for the books which makes it a whole lot more approachable. The one thing I did have to get used to was her writing style as it seemed to my kind of over the top but I guess that comes with writing a science book for a public audience. She has a talent for inventing funny allegories or examples that carry her message! It is practical. It is helpful. It teaches you how to be gentle with yourself. (The fact that she repeated that we are all normal and all beautiful annoyed me in the beginning and then - when I allowed it - made me tear up everytime). This aspect was my favorite part about the book because she got into big detail about how emotions and context work (in relationships and sexual relationships) and I felt like I just attended a very good therapy session with my therapist. This is definitely a book I'd recommend to all of my friends.