I think this is great to work through with a partner person. I didn't so parts of the book just weren't for me. However, she really integrates all kind of relationship styles, living frameworks and styles of sex in this work. Also, no shame regarding any here, even if you can sometimes tell she still thinks of open framed monogamy as the preferred "normal" for our society, while I'm more team "just communicate with your partner person(s) how you both (or all) feel great and loved and then look where you're sailing". But no hard feelings here. Easy flowing not-to-deep-digging reading with pretty heavy questions and exercises on the way. Liked it!