SO what if you didn't describe every single facet of your being perfectly? Who you are changes. Humans are messy. Gender is even messier. I was excited to read this book as I was expecting something fun and engaging. However, it was rather dry and boring. It felt like one big blog entry rather than a memoir. It took me more than a month to finish this book! They have a lot of privilege but do not seem to think so. All in all an interesting topic written by a person who's quite full of themself.